What is modern marriage really about?
However, I also have to remind everyone that although married life can be quite challenging, it was not meant to be harmful to anyone. Modern marriage is all about genuine love, care and support. Marriage was never about control and dominating someone so that you can get what you want.
How can you start saving your marriage today?
If you agree that these ideas are paramount to saving your marriage, then I’m going to share with you some common aversive techniques that I have observed in troubled couples over my many years of teaching and counseling.
Bear in mind that these aversive techniques may have variations and your situation may be slightly different than what I feature in today’s post.
The important thing is that you recognize these harmful patterns of behavior and that you do everything you can to change them because they definitely do not help in strengthening your relationship with your spouse:
1. The Lethal Blame Game – The lethal blame game occurs when a person blames his/her spouse when a need or desire arises. Here’s an example: Eric was having trouble submitting his requirements for his university degree. He wanted his wife to help him with some of the requirements because he feels rusty when it comes to writing academic essays.